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Tuesday, March 22, 2011

Gearing up...

Well, I may just be starting a new treatment plan with my new RE.  Only problem = DH.  Not so supportive.  He's very supportive of the idea of not trying any more, but not very supportive when it comes to seeking medical treatment.  I understand his religion-backed views in regard to ART, but if we're not going to interfere with "God's Plan", then it's not really "right" to prevent conception either - at any point in time.  I'm feeling really frustrated with DH right now.  We got married to have kids, plural.  So, let's do what we can to have kids. 

DH, you are so in love with E it amazes me, and you are a wonderful father.  She's lucky to have you.  For the life of me, I will never understand how you can be so uninterested in doing everything we can to have more.  We're good parents; E is a beautiful, intelligent testament to that fact.  Being good parents means you are providing the world with more good people; people who may just leave this world much better off than it is today.  Overpopulation is an issue, yes.  To that end, we need to be responsible conservationists and do what we can to ensure this world can support its people.  But it doesn't mean we (I?) should deny our (my?)interest in having more children.  It means that we need to do everything we can to help our child(ren) be positive, productive and peaceful additions to this world.

Ugh.  Fingers crossed that DH is on board with this new treatment when the time comes - waiting for CD1, only a few days left to decide after that DH!

-DOC

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